When we’re searching for love, we can often lose sight of our other goals and accomplishments along the way. We want so much to be in the right romantic partnership that we miss other major milestones that define our lives. We all want to love and be loved, and to find the person we were meant to spend the rest of our lives with.
The idea of a soulmate has trickled down in different cultures around the world. Stories tell us that we are missing part of ourselves that can only be matched by our soulmate. Some of us search for years without finding a connection like this, and it might seem as though you’ll never find the person who completes you.
Rather than look for a person to complete you, look around you at the life lessons you are learning. Every day we are confronted with situations that test us and try us. We get into relationships that feel right but end; we accept the love we think we deserve, which isn’t always the love we do deserve.
No person or relationship is going to be perfect, but there are moments in every person’s life where we know that the relationship that we are in isn’t the right one. When you realize this, it’s important to find a way to move on so that you can be open to the right person when they do appear in your life. Every relationship, whether good or bad, right or wrong, helps us on our journey through life.
Sometimes our soulmates aren’t in our lives for very long; they are just here to teach us a needed lesson. The beauty of a soulmate is that you are connected on a soul level, which means you have found each other before and you will continue to find one another throughout your lives.
If you think that you have met your soulmate or aren’t sure if someone in your life could be your soulmate, consider getting a psychic reading to dive deeper into your connection with this person. You could learn about how you were connected to them in a past life, and what your current connection to them could mean for resolving past life relationships.
You can always check in with your gut feelings as well- if this person feels like your soulmate, they probably are. If you have questions or feel like there are red flags in this relationship, then they probably aren’t your soulmate.
If you know you haven’t met your soulmate yet, don’t hold yourself back. Choose your relationships intentionally, and learn to move on when they no longer serve you or your goals.